What Do You Want?

What Do You Want?

Ask a woman who has spent her life on everyone else one small question. What do you want? She goes quiet. She smiles. She turns it back to you. Somewhere along the way she learned that her own wishes were the one thing she was not allowed to have. This is about that slow disappearing act, and the women in every man's life who have forgotten the answer to the smallest, kindest question there is.

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  1. 1The question no one asksThe question no one asksI have been thinking about a small question. The smallest one I know. What do you want? Ask it to a woman who has spent her life caring for other people, and2 min read3 comments
  2. 2I'm not hungryI'm not hungryWatch what a woman like this eats. Or rather, watch what she lets herself want. The best piece of fruit goes to the children. The softest part of the meal go2 min read1 comment
  3. 3The folded dreamThe folded dreamEvery woman I think about had a dream once. A real one. A song she wanted to learn. A city she wanted to see. A small shop she imagined running. A subject sh2 min read1 comment
  4. 4All her namesAll her namesThe same woman answers to more names than anyone counts. Somewhere she is a maa. Somewhere a daadi or a naani. A maami, a chaachi, a taayi. A behen. Later a bh2 min read3 comments
  5. 6What do you want?What do you want?So we come back to the smallest question. What do you want? It sounds like nothing. It is not nothing. For a woman who has spent her life answering for everyon3 min read5 comments
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