Anonimo
unsaid expectations

Hello guys how are you I am good and I also hope you are doing great so today I am sharing my life experience and my feelings with you. You know parents are your best supporter . But sometime Jo kuch unkahi expectations hoti hai vah aapko itni chubh jaati Hai jitni aapko kahkar bhi nahin chhubegi. Aap padh rahe ho kuch achieve karna chahte ho kuchh Banna chahte ho ultimately aapke parents bhi yHi chahte Hain ki aap jald se jald Apne pairon per khade ho lekin kuchh chijen aise hoti hai jo time mangte Hain. Kuchh chijen aise hote hain jinhen achieve karne ke liye Jo process hota hai vah kafi Lamba hota Hai. Kai jagah parents force karte Hain to you will settle on a bare minimum. But Kai jagah aisa hota hai ki parents force nahin kar rahe hote hain vah kahate Hain ki aap apna time Lo lekin kahin na kahin aap unka chehra padh lete ho ki vah bol kuchh aur rahe hain aur unka Dil kuchh aur Kah Raha Hai. Vah kah Rahe Hain ki take your time but andar hi andar aap bhi jante Hain vah bhi jante Hain ki vah apna patience khote Ja Rahe Hain vah jaldi se jaldi chahte Hain ki aap kuchh achieve karo to aapka Jo Sapna Hai vah khud Se jyada ban jata hai dusron ke liye aap kuchh achieve karna chahte ho khud ke liye nahin Apne parents ke liye Tum unhe ekadam proud Krna chahte ho ye galat baat nahin hai lekin ismein kya hota hai ki aapke upar itna unsaid mental pressure a jata hai ki aap bahut hi kam mein bhi settle hone ki soch lete ho. Aapke dreams pure nahin ho paate aur jo agar Ho bhi chahte Hain to usmein vah Khushi nahin Hoti. Competition hai koi bhi chij aasani se nahin milati sab kuchh bahut hi tough Hai process bahut lamba hai upar Se ye aur jimmedaariyon ka bojh iske sath kuchh bhi achieve karna thoda sa mushkil jarur Ho jata Hai Lekin main fir bhi yah kahungi ki badon Ko bhi kbhi kbhi Apne bacchon per trust karna chahie process pr bhi trust Krna chahie thoda time lag raha hai to samajhna chahie ki aapse jyada jaldi aapko proud karne ki aapke bacche ko hai to mor time unhen apni jindagi jeene ka mauka dijiye agar aap UN per trust karenge to vah apni process se trust karenge aur achcha hi banenge. Aur last mein jab aap unhen satisfaction mein dekhoge to sabse jyada Khushi bhi aap Hi Ko hogi because we all know that parents are the biggest supporter and the bestest friend anyone can have.
When your parents' unspoken expectations feel heavy, do you
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This is so relatable. ❤️ Sometimes parents say they trust us and that we can take our time, but we can still feel the unspoken expectations in their eyes. We want to make them proud so badly that we start putting pressure on ourselves and forget that our dreams deserve patience too. Every journey has its own timeline, and not every achievement can be rushed. Parents trusting their children’s dreams and the process behind them can make such a huge difference. Beautifully expressed! ❤️✨