Anonimo
Personal space?
I have my personal space and it means a lot to me, like I can't imagine not having my study table decorated. Yes, you read it right, my personal space is my study table and not just that, my diaries, my private folder of photo album and my saved reels, evrything is a part of it and it helps me having a great mood. So, due to this personal space, I don't let people come in my that personal zone which I created for me. Let's say journaling, I was in 9th when I started liking someone and since I had no good friends, I used to tell my diary everything. Since then, diaries became my way to escape the world and I love the way I zone out whenever I either write something in my diary or read something from the past.
I saw one reel asking why do you write and my answer was "I write good memories to remember always and bad ones to recall the last time" and it's not totally true because I still read the bad ones as well to feel what I felt that day and trust me time heals everything, it made me realise that it was not big deal, why was I so sad about it?? And that's when I know writing is important to reflect on your own actions... What I did back then was completely stupid and you can never know or realise things like this so writing is must for me.
Safe spaces are important. These are where we empty our thoughts and emotions without being judged. It could be a diary or a journal. Sometimes venting to them relaxes anf calms us
It is relieving to see that I am not alone to be finding comfort in words over people. I have realised that words that you have written cannot change, people do. It is better to confess to someone who has the power to hold onto your most vulnerable parts