Feeling abandoned

The feeling of being abandon is the worst feeling one ever could feel

This breaks heart and sometimes it breaks a person

When you are attached to someone ,you feel that this is the one but then they abandon you or ghost you

Its not that the feeling of being abandoned which make you feel sad but the disappointment the regret of Choosing that person

Of course it will take some time but eventually will handle and came out of this feeling

What should we do in this situation ?

I think one should focus on themselves , on their personal growth

Meet new people hang out friends

Exercise ,walk ,watch series and erase that person ‘s memory from your mind and phone

I’m doing all this but still feel melancholic why I don’t no maybe I’m disappointed in my self that I give so much hold of my emotions and rely for my happiness to others

I should learn to live for myself, to be alone , to love myself

This is not the first time I m abandoned or neglected but I still not learn the art of living alone or not to depends on others for my happiness and growth

I always feels alone no matter what

But still I don’t learn self love and self fulfilment